Glasses, Gags and Group Sex

Glasses and More

In this series, I’m going to give you a run down on a variety of kinks and fetishes, from A-Z. In this ‘G’ post it will be Glasses, Gagging and Group Sex. This wonderful world of kink and fetish is incredibly varied and interesting. You never know, you might just stumble across something that takes your fancy. At the very least, it will make for some fun reading.

A quick reminder, a kink is something you especially enjoy, and may add an extra element of sexiness to a situation. On the other hand, a fetish is an object, action or desire that needs to be present in order to achieve sexual satisfacion. Kinks especially are tricky to define, because one person’s kink can be someone else’s norm. Fetishes are easier to pick out and can range from the vanilla to the peculiar. Let’s dive in and learn together. Today we will cover some of the G’s.

Glasses

Glasses are often associated with intellegence and mystery, two things that themself can be sexy and a true turn on. People who have a glasses fetish or kink usually find glasses sexually arousing when worn by others, however some people also find it arousing putting on glasses themselves.

Glasses can somewhat fall into the category of role play. Thick rimmed glasses scream geek, sleek glasses conjure up thoughts of a sexy secretary or strict head teacher. The person wearing glasses can complete the look and that can be a turn on. Some people however find glasses alone a turn on and will become aroused seeing someone wearing them, or pushing glasses up their nose, looking over the top of their glasses or simply nibbling on the end of the arm of the glasses. There is no right or wrong way to enjoy a glasses fetish.

Usually a person with a glasses fetish will want their partner to wear glasses during foreplay and intercourse. Simply finding someone more attractive in glasses wouldn’t count as a fetish but if you can’t get off without some glasses in the vicinity, then you might be looking at a fetish indeed.

Gagging

Gagging can refer to lightly choking on an object, such as a penis or being slighty choked by the hand of your partner or being gagged with a ball gag which would render you unable to speak. Some people like to be gagged during sex whilst others find it a fun form of foreplay.

Gagging is usually about roleplaying submissive/domination roles within BDSM. Both the sub and dom might find gagging a turn on but will usually prefer to either be gagged or do the gagging. It is rare that people would switch roles.

Erotic pleasure can be gained for the sub from the sense of helplessness and anxiety that they might feel and from feeling completely reliant on the dom. Whereas a dom might find pleasure purely from the sub being submissive. However, some might enjoy the sounds a gagged person makes, or love watching them drool uncontolably.

Gagging can also cross over into humiliation. When someone is to be humiliated, instead of using a rubber ball gag as is common, couples might use a gag that will force the mouth wide open.

There are many ways to induldge in gagging but it is important as with most forms of BDSM to establish a safe word before you start.

Group Sex

Group sex is induldging in sex with more than 1other person. So that can count threesomes, orgies and gang bangs. A threesome of course is 3 people, and will often be a couple looking for a third to spice things up, so will usually be mixed genders. However it can also involve 3 people of the same sex. Threesome generally fall into the kink side of things. Threesomes aren’t generally something people need to feel fulfilled. A threesome is usually a fantasy that someone wans to tick off of their bucket list or something that happens after one too many vinos. Whereas an orgy or gang bang is usually something that is thought about and planned. An orgy is usually a group of mixed genders having sex together. In the same place and swapping partners and watching others.

A gangbang is one person induldging in sex with more than two people, usually of the opposite gender.

Swinging isnt to be confused with Group Sex. Group sex is more about a fleshy free for all where as swinging is about swapping partners.

Group sex can be fun and liberating but is best practiced with strangers. This is to avoid akward situations with friends, where feelings of jealousy or embarressment can come into play.

Until next time

I hope you have enjoyed learning about just some of the G’s in the wonderful world of kinks and fetishes. Be sure to check out our H’s next time. If you found this interesting, take a look at our post on the difference between a kinks and fetishes.

There are also plenty of other topics to read about about here at Tabu.co.nz. Find out about the sales boom on the South Island Sex Toys Boom! – Tabu Adult Boutique; read about the reasons for the success of Fleshlight Girls or maybe you’d prefer a quick introduction to BDSM?