Anal Play, Adult Baby and Asphyxiation

Anal Play and More…

I’m going to give you a run down of a variety of kinks and fetishes, from A-Z. In this ‘A’ post it will be Anal Play, Adult Baby and Asphyxiation. This wonderful world of kink and fetish is incredibly varied and interesting. You never know, you might just stumble across something that takes your fancy. At the very least, it will make for some fun reading.

A quick reminder, a kink is something you especially enjoy, and may add an extra element of sexiness to a situation. On the other hand, a fetish is an object, action or desire that needs to be present in order to achieve sexual satisfacion. Kinks especially are tricky to define, because one person’s kink can be someone else’s norm. Fetishes are easier to pick out and can range from the vanilla to the peculiar. Let’s dive in and learn together. Today we will cover some of the A’s.

Anal Play – Kink or Fetish

Anal play can range from a cheeky finger to penatrative sex with a penis or dildo. You can also add into the mix the use of anal beads or butt plugs. Whilst anal play can be a fun and safe practice, there is some prep work you need to think about.

Firstly a douche will be your new best friend. A douche (or enema bulb) ensures you are clean and ready and that there will be no nasty surprises. Then you need to stock up on lubricant and lots of it! You can also try a relaxing anal spray, this will relax the area, making the whole process easier and a lot more comfortable. If you think you could do with a bit of help. If it’s your first time engaging in anal play, start slow and start small, whether that be with just a finger or some slim anal beads and then work your way up. Of course, don’t forget to get yourself a good quality toy cleaner to make clean up of anal toys a breeze.

Many people enjoy anal play because the area is jam packed with nerve endings, some which are connected to the genitals. Men can experience prostate orgasms which are full-body intense orgasms. Women can also enjoy having their G-Spot and A-Spot indirectly stimulated during anal sex, which if done right can also result in a full body orgasm which could even lead to squirting (female ejaculation).

Autonepiophilia – Fetish

Autonepiophilia, also known as Adult Baby / Diaper Lovers (AB/DL) is a sexual fetish that involves role-playing a regression to an infantile state. Behaviours commonly include wearing nappies, sucking on a dummy, indulging in baby talk, cuddling stuffed animals, wearing childish clothes, crawling, breastfeeding and drinking from a bottle. This practice seldom results in physical sex or masturbation as those involved in the activity dont want to break the ilusion of their role play. They derive their sexual satisfaction from the emotional comfort they recieve. Some also use wetting or soiling a nappy as a form of sexual climax.

Asphyxiation

Asphyxiation, or breath play, as it is more commonly known, is the practice of choking someone for sexual pleasure. People may choose to use their hands to do this but will also sometimes try using equipment such as plastic wrap or plastic bags. Others prefer to use specialized BDSM equipment such as hoods. Usually, breath is restrcited by tying something around the neck. Breathing can also be controlled by putting a barrier across the mouth and nose.

People who partake in these practices say that quite simply they are aroused be choking and/or being choked. Other reasons for delighting in asphyxiation are the feelings of power you assert over someone else. The trust built up between partners, and the feeling of panic experienced when it’s hard to breathe, apparently intensify orgasm.

Asphyxiation is an incredibly dangeous kink/fetish and should not be entered into lightly, if at all. You can suffer from broken blood vessels in the face, hoarseness and trouble swallowing. The very scary outcome of this practice is death. I do not recommend or condone trying asphyxiation, and only write about it in order to inform.

Until next time

I hope you have enjoyed learning about just some of the A’s in the wonderful world of kinks and fetishes. Be sure to check out our B’s later in the week. Be sure to check out our post on what the difference is between a kink and fetish.