Dirty Talk, Dollification and Dysmorphophilia

Dirty Talk and More

In this series, I’m going to give you a run down on a variety of kinks and fetishes, from A-Z. In this ‘D’ post it will be Dirty Talk, Dollification and Dysmorphophilia. This wonderful world of kink and fetish is incredibly varied and interesting. You never know, you might just stumble across something that takes your fancy. At the very least, it will make for some fun reading.

A quick reminder, a kink is something you especially enjoy, and may add an extra element of sexiness to a situation. On the other hand, a fetish is an object, action or desire that needs to be present in order to achieve sexual satisfacion. Kinks especially are tricky to define, because one person’s kink can be someone else’s norm. Fetishes are easier to pick out and can range from the vanilla to the peculiar. Let’s dive in and learn together. Today we will cover some of the D’s.

Dirty Talk

Dirty talk might not sound like a kink or fetish, as it is something most of us induldge in from time to time with our lovers. Even if it is a simple, “im so hard” or “im so wet”. But dirty talk as a kink or fetish is a whole next level. Millions of people find sexy talk a real turn on, finding it adds to their sexual experience and enjoy talking dirty with their partner. However, when it takes on the form of a fetish, the fetishist is unable to get arosued and/or climax without it. When naughty talk becomes a fetish rather than a kink, it often takes a turn from a bit of naughty banter into aggression, humiliation or even abusive.

Dirty talk can intensify one’s sexual experiences. For those who love it, it’s a great method of foreplay. Dirty talk is a great way of expressing to your partner what it is that you like and/or enjoy. It’s a great way of letting them know what you’d like to do to them also. It can help to keep communication flowing in the bedroom and can form a strong bond between couples. Many people find dirty talk to be just as good, if not better than the sex itself.

If dirty talk is something you think you might like to try, then have an open an honest converation with your partner about it. Discuss what things would turn you on and what topics would be an absolute mood killer. Dirty talk can be a lot of fun if you can relax into it.

Dollification

Dollification isn’t simply someone who likes dolls a lot, and desires to look like one. It is a giant step further than that. Someone with a dollification fetish will generally be sexually aroused by and attracted to dolls or figurines. In the dollification world there and the dolls and their owners. Dolls like to be objectified and owned. Therefore they usually pair up with an owner. Most times, but not always, the doll will enjoy being submissive and the owner will be dominant. Dollification, is the process of transforming yourself, both mentally and physically into a living doll.

When engaging in sex with their ‘owner’, they will usually lay lifeless and doll-like, making no sound and not moving. The ‘owner’ will then do whatever he/she likes to the doll, and take great pleasure in her dollish state. Most doll-play couples have a safe word that the doll can mutter if her owner is taking things too far and doing something she does not enjoy. Whilst most dolls tend to be women, there are men that are in to being a doll too.

Some enthusiats are happy to just dress and act as a doll for this fetish. Whilst others take it a step further and have severe body modifications in order to achieve the desired ‘perfect doll look’.

Dollification often extends to the couples’ every day life, and is not just limited to the bedroom.

Dysmorphophilia

Dysmorphophilia is when someone is attacted to or has a sexual preference for people with pyhical or mental impairments. A Dysmorphophile will usually become aroused when fantasizing about a person with a disability. They will often seek people out, based on their disabilities, in order to get sexual gratification.

Dysmorphophiles tend to have a preference for a certain type of disability. For instance, someone might find scoliois sexy and other will be attracted to spinal injuries, and focus soley on this type of deformity. Whilst someone else might find a limp alluring.

The majority of Dysmorphophiles are aroused by someone with a permenant disability. On rare occassions however, people with temporoary problems, such as a leg in a cast or an arm in a sling will do.

It can be tricky for dysmorphophiles to find partners, as understandably many people with disabilities worry that dysmorphophiles are purely interested in their disability rather than the person that they are. Those who choose not to act on their preferences, tend to enjoy fantasizing about it instead or find an understanding partner willing to role play.

Until next time

I hope you have enjoyed learning about just some of the D’s in the wonderful world of kinks and fetishes. Be sure to check out our E’s next week. If you found this interesting, take a look at our post on what the difference is between a kink and fetish.