Corsets, CBT and Cuckolding

Corsets and more….

In this series, I’m going to give you a run-down of a variety of kinks and fetishes, from A-Z. In this ‘C’ post it will be Corsets, CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) and Cuckolding. The wonderful world of kink and fetish is incredibly varied and interesting. You never know, you might just stumble across something that takes your fancy. At the very least, it will make for some fun reading.

A quick reminder, a kink is something you especially enjoy, and may add an extra element of sexiness to a situation. On the other hand, a fetish is an object, action or desire that needs to be present in order to achieve sexual satisfacion. Kinks especially are tricky to define, because one person’s kink can be someone else’s norm. Fetishes are easier to pick out and can range from the vanilla to the peculiar. Let’s dive in and learn together. Today we will cover some of the C’s.

Corsets – Kink or Fetish

A corset fetish or kink is when sexual arousal or interest is derived from corsets. Whether that be seeing someone in a corset or wearing one yourself. Corsetry tends to fall into the realm of BDSM. Some corset fans simply enjoy the asthetic of wearing one or seeing someone in them. The unnatural look and shape that a corset creates can be arousing to some. Others find the act of lacing a corset or being laced paticulary exciting, especially when pulled in extremeley tight, causing a restriction.

There are over bust and under bust corsets, even waist cinchers. Some corset fans like all types of corset whilst others have a certain preference. People tend to keep corsets on during intercourse, but corset play doesn’t always necessarily climax with sex, sometimes the act of simply viewing someone in a corset and feeling the tightness and restricitons of a corset is enough to satisfy.

CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) – Kink or Fetish

Cock and Ball Torture is about pain and or restriction to the penis and testicles. Sexual pleasure and stimulation can be derived from causing pain and trauma to this area or recieving it. Some milder forms of this practice are things such as genital piercing, tickling and light squeezing. Some people choose to use devices such as a ball stretcher.

A ball stretcher is used to elongate the scrotum which will cause the feeling of a weight pulling the testicles. This can make the man’s orgasm much more intense. Parachutes are another toy used in CBT that whilst decidely kinky isnt too far out there when it comes to CBT. A parachute can be worn around the scrotum and have weights attached to it, this is to intensify the feeling of the testicles being pulled. These are mild examples of some kinds of CBT and the toys that can be used.

Take it up a notch

Those who are seriously into this type of play tend to try more and more intense things as time goes by, because they can get used to the feeling and want to up the ante.

Things such as wax play, where hot wax is dripped onto the balls and penis is often indulged in as well as spanking, squeezing or flogging the scrotum. Urethral play also falls under CBT. This can be anything from the urethral being fingered by a partner to using a urtheral toy, which come in all shapes and sizes. Electrostimulation can also be popular.

Then you can move on to the more extreme, things such as ball crushing/busting, which can be incredibly painful and extemely dangerous. There are specially designed toys for this but a stiletto’d foot can often suffice. Then we have kneeing or kicking of the genital area. Believe it or not, this is incredibly arousing for some men. Fans of CBT tend to derive pleasure from the humiliation of the act, being dominated by their partner or from the erotic feeling of pain that it causes. It is advised to always use a safe word when taking part in such practices.

Cuckolding – Kink or Fetish

Cuckolding is deriving sexual pleasure from watching or hearing your partner have sex with another person. Many find the taboo nature of induldging in this a turn on in itself. However, the vast majority of participants enjoy the power dynamics at play. It can often veer into humiliation because it can involve telling your partner how the third person is better in bed than they are, better looking or able to turn them on more. Many people fantasize about cuckolding, but never actually turn it into a reality. Cuckolding can cause a strain on your realtionship if both partners are not fully invested in the practice. It is good advice to ensure the third person is someone neither of you know. Someone you might find on an app who specifically offers this kind of service or is looking for a threesome is the best option.

Some cucks find a good way to start cuckolding is talking with their partner about an ex -lover in great detail. You can see how this makes the pair of you feel and then go from there. If you share details of how the ex-lover is better than your current partner, this could also spark erotic feelings between you.

Until next time

I hope you have enjoyed learning about just some of the C’s in the wonderful world of kinks and fetishes. Be sure to check out our D’s next week. Be sure to check out our post on what the difference is between a kink and fetish.