Blow His Mind – A Blowjob Guide

Blow His Mind – A Blowjob Guide

In a previous blog I promised to bring you a guide to performing the perfect blowjob. Well, here it is! I am confident it will be the best blow by blow account you ever come across and will be sure to blow his mind! I know the thought of sucking dick fills many women with fear and dread. Now, these concerns usually fall into two categories. Either they aren’t too sure how to go about it, or they are less than thrilled about putting their partner’s penis in their mouth. Well, let’s be honest, it’s quite an ugly looking creature (the penis, not the partner). But let me reassure all women, when performed well, a blow job can be just as pleasurable an experience for the woman as it is for the man. So let me begin.

Getting Down To It

The first thing to bear in mind is to take your time, it’s not a race! However, if it were, slow and sensual would win every time. Start by telling your man how much you love his cock. Assure him you can’t wait to have it in your mouth. If he understands that you enjoy it too, he will be far more relaxed. Speaking of which, a blow job usually feels better for a guy when he is laying down. This allows him to let go and really enjoy himself. Men are very much visual animals. So laying down while receiving head is great for them as they are able to watch you at work. In addition to seeing your mouth in action, they can get a nice view of your body. Wearing sexy lingerie or being totally naked will add to his excitement!

When you have him lying comfortably on the bed, climb on top of him. Kiss him passionately and between those kisses, tell him how excited you are about the thought of tasting his cock. Kiss his neck, nibble his ears, let your hair tickle his skin as you slowly kiss down his body. If your man has sensitive nipples be sure to tweak and lick them as you make your way south. When you get to his groin area, don’t rush in. Make sure you pay attention to everything – apart from his penis. Kiss his pubic hair and lick his inner thighs. Lightly brush your lips against his balls and use your fingertips to gently massage them.

Don’t Rush In

He will be super turned on by this stage and probably begging you to put it in your mouth, but wait. So much of the pleasure is in the anticipation. Next, move the kisses from the thighs to the shaft of his penis. Kiss and lick the shaft, so he feels like any minute now you are going to take him in you mouth. Instead, switch your focus to his balls by taking them both into your mouth. Treat them with care but give them a gentle suck and move your tongue around to give them a mini massage. Whilst you are doing this, use your hands to play with his penis.

By now he should be well and truly worked up, so time to fulfill his desires. Begin to kiss and lick slowly up his shaft, then twirl your tongue around the head of his penis and then lick the shaft again. Repeat this a couple of times and then finally take his penis into your mouth, as much of it as you can fit in. This will feel like heaven to him after all of the touching and teasing. At this point it’s important to remember to keep the blow job interesting.

Use your mouth, hands and tongue. Play with his balls, while you are sucking him. (Just to clarify, when I say ‘suck’, I don’t mean like a lollipop. Simply move your mouth up and down his penis whilst sucking.) Even try giving his balls a gentle tug. Massage his perineum with your finger. This is the patch of skin that lies between his scrotum and anus. It is packed with nerve endings. Overall, the best strategy is to mix things up. This way he won’t know what you are going to do next, and the anticipation is thrilling! Don’t overlook the fact that the head of the penis is super sensitive. Be sure to pay close attention to it, occasionally licking, kissing and stroking it.

Look Him In The Eye

Making eye contact during a blow job is very erotic and a huge turn on for the guy. so don’t get so busy down there that you forget the penis has an owner! Look up at him and hold eye contact for a few seconds. It is not only sexy, but also a great way to connect emotionally as well as physically.  When your man is nearing climax you have a big decision to make. Do I spit or do I swallow?

Now, personally, there is no decision to make. I swallow every single time. Why you ask? Well, because I didn’t work so damn hard to make him shoot his load, only to let it sadly drip down his penis onto his stomach, just be wiped away with a tissue, that’s why. Also there is nothing sexier or more satisfying for a guy than seeing his girl enjoy the taste of him.

All In Good Taste

Believe me when I say, they always remember the girl that swallows! That said, if he happens to have some unusually nasty spunk, that is not acceptable and should definitely not be digested. Don’t be afraid to tell him if he needs a little help in the taste department. Now don’t get me wrong, its never gonna taste like ice cream, but it shouldn’t taste like rotten egg either. He can drink some pineapple juice to sweeten his load (it really does work). Also, avoiding cigarettes and strong smelling foods helps too (no curries before a BJ I’m afraid). Follow these simple steps and he should be tasting more like candy in no time.

However, if swallowing really isn’t for you, avoid putting your hand over your mouth and running to the bathroom or spiting it all over him (unless that’s his thing!). May I suggest, as he is just about to come, aim him at your breasts. The sight of a money shot on your tits will distract him from the fact you didn’t fancy swallowing.

And that my friends is how you give a mind blowing blow job.

Written by Gia Joy, for Tabu Adult Boutique.